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Oliver Burkeman’s last column: the eight secrets to a (fairly) fulfilled life
completed: 0000-00-00When stumped by a life choice, choose “enlargement” over happiness. I’m indebted to the Jungian therapist James Hollis for the insight that major personal decisions should be made not by asking, “Will this make me happy?”, but “Will this choice enlarge me or diminish me?”