on swinging between extremes
Because of my health issues I have had to experiment a lot with my diet and exercise, so I go into semi-strict regimes to see if something works. I say “semi-strict” because…
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Susanna Clarke’s chronic illness
Someone reviewed Piranesi on my rss feed, and it led me to this Paris Review write up on Susanna Clarke, whom you may know as the authour of Jonathan Strange & Mr…
the paradox of the self
When I was younger (actually, not too long ago) I was often trapped in my own pain and suffering. I would wonder very often why did terrible things constantly seem to happen…
self sabotage looks a lot like self sacrifice
also sometimes self sabotage looks a lot like self sacrifice so people (including myself) think they are being good people by having no boundaries, not knowing how to say no, volunteering to…
my long, winding, challenging road to healing
In my last few posts I wrote about how I’ve become increasingly more aware of my dysregulated nervous system. Just like the analogy I have used that I don’t expect a person…
Ways I’ve hurt my relationships
on repeating old patterns in an infinite loop