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small meaningful things

everytime I wait for a time and space so I can be thoughtful when I reply to someone’s comment or email – the time never comes and I end up coming across as rude or nonchalant. perhaps a half reply is better than none?

54 months

it is that time of the month again! the last month hasn’t been easy for us as we both individually struggled with different issues. but it is through such struggles we get…

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also sometimes self sabotage looks a lot like self sacrifice so people (including myself) think they are being good people by having no boundaries, not knowing how to say no, volunteering to be the martyr, etc.

Learning to be happy for me has been trying to wipe off the decades old operating system I’ve been installed with, reformatting myself and trying to install something new. Human beings are a relatively young species and therefore age-old wisdom or beliefs may no longer work.